Hey guys, I’m Nico Sanchez, and I’ve been a men’s sex and dating coach for over 10 years.
Today I'm going to explain how exactly to word your texts when asking a hot girl on a date.
Lucky for you, very few guys know how to text to not only get a response, but to actually pique any hot girl’s interest.
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Obviously you shouldn’t be asking anyone out before warming them up, so this advice is for after you’ve exchanged a few back and forth texts…
So let’s say you’ve gotten a girl’s attention… now you’re ready to hook her…
That’s what we’re going to discuss in today’s article.
Let’s begin.
Text #1: Ask: “The Serious Question”
After you’ve captured a girl’s attention and got her texting you back, you’re not going to just keep texting her for days and days.
She’s not going to waste time on a guy who can’t make a move, so you need to move things forward…
All you have to do is acknowledge whatever she said in her last text, and then tell her you have a “serious question.”
It's important to respond to whatever she said first or she’ll think you’re not really paying attention to what she’s saying, which is a huge turn-off for women.
This tactic works by applying tension to your dynamic.
In this case, tension is a good thing.
The tension you’re creating will not only make her more invested in the conversation, but in many cases it’ll get her responding faster.
It makes her a little nervous and very interested.
Here are some examples of what the texts should look like:
Example 1:
Nico: Just gonna grab dinner with my buddy later, but nothing much aside from that. Btw… I have a bit of a serious question for you… I hope it’s not TOO personal or anything like that…
Jessie: Oh boy… I'm nervous… what is it?
Example 2:
Nico: Wow Sarah… just wow… I take my blanket fort VERY seriously, and extend invites to only the coolest people in the city. Think I'm a little triggered haha BTW I have a super serious question for you…
Sarah: Okay okay maybe I was wrong… it would be my honor to hang out with you in your fort lol What's up?
Example 3:
Nico: Of course it’d be watermelon! Nothing but the best for my imaginary wife 🙂 haha Btw… I got a bit of a serious question to ask you…
Maria: Sure, what’s up
Text #2: The Seed Text
The Seed Text is your “serious” question…
That “serious” question is essentially “Will you go on a date with me?”
But… with a twist *wink wink.*
You see, you’re not just some simple-minded banana guzzling monkey, no no no no.
You’re going to use your highly evolved opposable thumbs and come up with something a lot more creative than “wAnNA gO oN A DatE WiF MeeE??”
But you know what…
Straight up asking a girl on a date is actually a hell of a lot better than what most guys do…
Most guys are absolute terrible at asking women out. They tend to do it in a vague, safe, and generic way which often doesn’t even let the woman know that he’s even asking her on a date.
They say boring half-questions like “Wanna hang out sometime?”
That’s lame baby garbage texting right there, and I’m going to teach you how to ask a woman out in a baller way, while getting her panties a little wet with “The Seed Text.”
Before I get into the specifics, I want to talk about the 3 Elements to this text…
The Three Elements Of The Seed Text
Fun:
Take a page from Cyndi Lauper, girls just wanna have fun.
Women are constantly being asked on dates, and you have to stand out from everyone else's invites.
I’m not telling you to take her on a super creative date or even a memorable one… I’m telling you that you have to word this text creatively enough to sound different and more fun than everyone else's offer.
You’re selling yourself, and oftentimes a little bit of creative writing is all you need to make that sale.
Invite Her To Something Specific:
Do NOT ask her if she wants to “hang out”, because the answer is probably going to be no, she doesn’t.
She has friends to hang out with, who she already knows and trusts, so you HAVE to be specific in the activity, and the more specific the better.
Asking her “Wanna grab Taco’s at Pablo’s Burrito Shack”, is much better than asking her “You wanna grab dinner?”
Now you might be thinking… how is dinner fun?
Well… like I said, the actual date doesn’t have to be fun, the invite just has to SOUND fun.
Flirtiness:
A lot of people leave this part out, but I don’t. I’m landing a date here, not a platonic study buddy.
So I don’t even attempt to hide my flirtiness, and neither should you!
Now that you’re aware of what the elements are required to craft the perfect “Seed” text, I’m going to show you a formula for crafting this text, some more examples, and some screenshots.
The Equation for the Seed Text
Here is the text broken down to its simplest components so you can craft your own in the future.
How do you feel about (ordinary date activity with fun twist #1) + (ordinary date activity with fun twist #2) + laughing your face off while I shamelessly flirt with you all night (flirtiness) = The Seed Text.
Sidenote: A lot of people leave out that last part about shamelessly flirting with you all night… but like I said, women love bold men… and what better way of being bold by straight up telling her I plan on flirting with her all night?
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Follow this formula.
Make sure your text has the 3 elements I mentioned above.
And you should get a response pretty quickly if done right.
My Personal Seed Text of Choice
So… I only have one example here, because at the time of writing this I’ve established a first date routine that has been working wonders for me.
Before I go on, I gotta tell you this… if you want to boost your chances of getting a second date, or even getting laid on the first date, then it is ideal to…
- Take her to multiple places (like a restaurant and THEN a bar).
- Make sure those places are close to your place (walking distance preferably).
- A reason to come back to your place, usually booze or some kind of activity like Jenga… but it can be anything. It can be a game, a dog, whatever really. I once told a girl I had an outdoor cat (I didn’t, I just fed a stray cat most days) and asked her if she wanted to meet her…
Not to mention a good first date needs flirting, touching, and for you to make a move.
Now… I can’t go into all the specific details on how to create the perfect first date, and how to boost your chances of getting laid on the first date… I’ll have to save that for another book.
What I can tell you is that my first dates were always the same:
- Mexican restaurant around the corner from me
- Drinks at the bar down the street for me
- (If I’m lucky and things went smoothly) My place
With all that being said, here’s the seeding date I’ve been using:
“How do you feel about grabbing some yummy tacos, sipping on some tasty margaritas, and laughing your face off while I shamelessly flirt with you all night?”
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“How do you feel about eating some delectable cheese, sipping on some tasty wine, and laughing your face off while I shamelessly flirt with you all night?”
“How do you feel about an epic bowling match, mouth watering nachos, craft beer, and laughing your face off while I shamelessly flirt with you all night?”
I can come up with a million examples, but I haven’t been using a million examples, this text has to be specifically tailored to whatever date you have planned.
Here’s how it looks in action:
Example 1:
Nico: How do you feel about grabbing some yummy tacos, sipping on some tasty margaritas, and laughing your face off while I shamelessly flirt with you all night?
Jessie: Hahah that's your serious question?? That actually sounds lovely
Note: Any positive emoji should be considered a sign that she's interested or even attracted to you.
Example 2:
Nico: How do you feel about grabbing some yummy tacos, sipping on some tasty margaritas, and laughing your face off while I shamelessly flirt with you all night?
Sarah: Lmao that sounds great
Example 3:
Nico: How do you feel about grabbing some yummy tacos, sipping on some tasty margaritas, and laughing your face off while I shamelessly flirt with you all night?
Maria: Hahah
Maria: I would love that hehe
Note: Tons of women LOVE Mexican food and margaritas. If you happen to live near one, definitely use that as your date suggestion.
Text #3: Nailing The Logistics
If your seed text worked well, and you get even the SLIGHTEST bit of a positive response, then all you have to do is ask when she’s free, like so:
Example 1:
Nico: Great! When are you usually free?
Jessie: I work everyday until 6, and I'm totally free on weekends.
Example 2:
Nico: Awesome! When are you usually free?
Sarah: I don't have any plans for the weekend yet
Note: Out of the three girls in this book Sarah seemed the least enthusiastic, but in person she was much more receptive, and our first date ended the next morning.
Just because someone doesn't seem that interested over text doesn't mean she's uninterested.
As long as she's responding you can assume she's interested.
Example 3:
Nico: Perfect! When are you usually free?
Mariah: I'm back home from teaching the kiddies at 4 the latest
Why are you asking her when SHE’S free?
Simple, because it’s easier to work around her schedule, than it is making her work around yours.
If it’s a first date, chances are she doesn’t know or like you enough to try and work around your schedule.
What If She Won't Tell You When She's Free, Or Doesn't Respond?
First and foremost, don’t panic…
Don’t make any assumptions…
And don’t take things personally…
You never know what’s going on in anyone’s life.
You don’t know if she’s already dating someone and wants to get more serious with that other dude, so she’s hesitant about saying yes to you.
She also might just not have seen your text.
DO NOT be one of those guys who shoots for a date, doesn’t hear back from a girl and starts making all sorts of assumptions about her, but really she was just at work.
You will INSTANTLY lose all chances of landing this girl, because the kind of men women are attracted to, are the kind of men who can keep his shit together.
And dude… be patient.
Sometimes a girl will tell you she doesn’t know what day she’ll be free because she has a million different things going on, or she works in a restaurant and hasn’t gotten her schedule yet.
If she’s worth it, just keep your cool, be patient, and talk to other women in the meantime.
Give her three shots.
Most girls will be down after the first attempt, but some girls will have excuses, some legitimate, and some not.
If you can’t get a date after giving it three shots… then move on.
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No person is worth that much of your time, and besides walking away when necessary is important for two other reasons.
One, most guys out there are thirsty as f*cccckkkkkk.
They would drag their sacs across a mile of broken glass, just for the opportunity to pay for a woman’s dinner.
Straight up, women are grossed out by these men.
They want a man who understands his own value, and adore men who are ballsy enough to walk away.
I can’t tell you how many times I’d give a woman three strikes and stop messaging her, only to get a message out of the blue, asking to do something together.
Sometimes this message appears two weeks after I stop texting her, sometimes it’s a month, sometimes it happens a few months down the line. It happens a lot actually, but it only happens when I demonstrate that my confidence is a solid as a diamond, by dropping her.
I don’t delete her from my phone book, and I don’t burn that bridge.
I just leave it there, and more women come around than I would have thought.
And it’s okay if one girl doesn’t respond again, I’m telling you man there will be more.
Text #4: Confirm The Date And Time
This part is simple…
Just pick a time and date, ask her if that works for her (which it should if you know her schedule), she should say yes if you’ve gotten this far, and boom… you have a date.
Example 1:
Nico: Do you know Salsa Kitchen? Let's meet there at around 7:07PM. How does that sound? 🙂
Jessie: Hahaha 7:07? Okay, let's meet then 🙂
Nico: It's a date 😉
Pro Tip: I like sending that last text I sent: It's a date 😉 It's bold and also sort of lets her know I'm
trying to hook up… and often when I send texts like this they expect me to make a move, which takes a lot of pressure off of me to go for that first kiss, or to take things to a sexual level.
Example 2:
Nico: You know the Mexican place close to the bar? Let’s do brunch/margarita day drinking this Saturday 🙂 How’s 2:17PM sound?
Sarah: 2:17? lol
Sarah: I think Sunday at 2 would be better for me if that's okay with you.
Nico: Perfect, it's a date 🙂 See you then!
Pro Tip: Notice something? I always ask girls on dates at weird times. I got this move from my buddy who is definitely one of the world's best texters. I don't know if sending this does anything, but the girls always get a laugh out of this.
Example 3:
Nico: Let's meet at the Mexican place I was telling you about around 7ish, then get a few drinks at this awesome little dive bar around the corner (we could always play pool if you're okay with
getting spanked!), and maybe even smoke a joint on my roof if you're up for it 🙂
Mariah: Hell yeah! I'll see you tomorrow, and you're the one who's getting spanked at pool mister!
What If You Just Want Her to Come Over to Hookup?
For the longest time, I thought that girls needed to be wined and dined before they were cool to hookup…
In hindsight, I probably passed up a bunch of hot girls who were already “good-to-go”… and willing to come over to my place to hookup.
After all… hot younger women these days are more than willing to come over to hookup after matching with you on a dating app.
Here’s the catch though:
If you’re “too forward” or “too aggressive”… she’ll ghost you faster than you can say “Casper”…
Yet if you’re “too timid” or (shudder) “too respectful of women” to push the ball forward… you’re going to end up being her texting buddy / emotional tampon.
Thankfully, my mentor Glenn has taken all of the guesswork out of what to text hot girls to get them to come straight over for sex.
These are 5 proven texts that Glenn uses to get “Zero Date Bangs.”
He rarely shares them with even his students… so it’s pretty remarkable that he’s “giving up the goods” for you and me… but hey, I’ll take it haha.
To see what to text hot girls that gets them to come over to your place… happily knowing that they’ll soon be on all fours, moaning your name, and getting pounded by YOU…
Click the link below now 🙂
5 Little-Known Texts That Get Her to Come Straight Over for Sex…
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